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CLEAR WATER PNW helps you navigate Divorce, Family, and Parenting Dispute Resolution with care. Start your journey to harmony today.
At CLEAR WATER PNW, our mission is to help you resolve Divorce through skilled Coaching, Mediation, and Legal guidance We strive to empower meaningful communication, guide peaceful conflict resolution, and foster lasting harmony in every relationship we touch.
At CLEAR WATER PNW, we offer tailored solutions to help you navigate conflicts with confidence and compassion. Our expert services include:
Leslie R. Bottimore created CLEAR WATER PNW after practicing Family and Elder Law for almost twenty-five (25) years and after running her own Business – the Law Firm Where the Family is Our Focus – Bottimore & Associates, P.L.L.C. – for over twenty (20) years.
Along the way, Leslie trained as a Mediator in various styles of Mediation: Evaluative Mediations with Shuttle Diplomacy, Settlement Conferences, Facilitative Mediations, Narrative Mediations, and Insight Mediations. Leslie is a Certified Mediator with Washington Mediation Association (WMA) and a Featured Mediator with Mediate.com. Leslie is also a Co-Parenting Coach and Certified Co-Parenting Specialist with CoPS.
Our expert mediators guide you to fair, amicable resolutions quickly and effectively. Reach out today for the support you need, whether In-Person or Virtually.
Conflict resolution is about resolving disputes peacefully. We help individuals and businesses navigate challenges with empathy and care.
In the realm of divorce and family disputes, the art of conflict resolution plays a crucial role in helping parties navigate complex emotions and disagreements. Effective conflict resolution helps couples navigate challenges, reach fair outcomes, and move forward with their lives.
At CLEAR WATER PNW, we guide clients through proven approaches to resolving divorce-related disputes. Mediation is one of the most effective tools for divorce conflict resolution. A neutral Certified Mediator facilitates conversations, helping both parties work toward mutually acceptable agreements on the essential questions of divorce.
Collaborative Divorce involves each spouse working with their own attorney while committing to resolve issues outside of Court. This Team approach often includes professionals like Financial Specialists and family counselors to address all concerns.
Negotiation through attorneys allows couples to resolve disputes while keeping their distance from direct confrontation, which is helpful when emotions run high. Parenting Coordination focuses specifically on Co-Parent conflicts, providing ongoing support to keep children’s best interests at the center.
Throughout every approach, we encourage open communication, active listening, and respect for each person’s perspective. By addressing underlying concerns and focusing on practical solutions, we help clients find clarity and move forward with confidence.
If you’re facing divorce and want to resolve conflicts constructively, CLEAR WATER PNW is here to support you.
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Insight Mediation starts with the premise that the Mediator does not have the answers; Clients have the answers and get to them with further inquiry. The Mediator does not make presumptions or assumptions.
Facilitative Mediation occurs with the Participants in the same room – whether In Person in the Same Room or in the same Zoom Room. It is less directive. It involves the Mediator “Facilitating” a Common Ground with the Participants being “Led from Behind.” It may occur without Attorneys or with Attorneys present. If present, Attorneys are encouraged to observe and allow their clients to create their own solutions with the guidance of the Mediator. It may occur in several sessions or in one session, depending upon the needs of the Participants. Usually, no Court Action or Trial is pending, and the Participants seek to resolve their Divorce or Family Dispute to avoid the need for Court-Intervention. Often, Mediation has been selected or ordered in a Parenting Plan, and the parents may have run into a Dispute to be resolved.
Evaluative Mediation is more directive and recommended for those in Litigation, where there has been some Discovery, perhaps Temporary Orders have been entered with the Superior Court, and a fair and equitable resolution and finality are sought to avoid the need for Trial. Participants may be represented by Counsel or they may be Pro Se. Shuttle Diplomacy is exercised where each Participant remains in a separate room – whether In Person in a Separate Room or in a separate Zoom Breakout Room; and the Mediator “Shuttles” and engages with each Participant from Room to Room.
Co-Parenting Coaching helps to facilitate Uncoupling and Positive Communications between Parents for the Best Interests of their Child / Children.
ISSUES FOR RESOLUTION
A Mediator cannot give Legal Advice, cannot draft pleadings or Court Orders and cannot represent you in Court in presenting your Settlement Agreement to the Court. It is your decision whether or not you need representation by an Attorney during the Mediation process, and if not, if you need representation following the Mediation process.
Yes, Washington is a no-fault divorce state. Neither spouse needs to prove wrongdoing like adultery or abandonment to file for divorce—the only required ground is that the marriage is “irretrievably broken.”
An uncontested divorce occurs when both spouses already agree on all major issues—there’s nothing to negotiate, mediate, or resolve. We sometimes call this a “Kitchen Table Divorce” because the couple has essentially worked everything out on their own before involving attorneys.
A contested divorce means spouses disagree on one or more issues that need to be resolved. However, “contested” doesn’t automatically mean going to Court. Mediation and Collaborative Divorce are methods for resolving contested issues outside of the courtroom—but make no mistake, these processes can involve just as much conflict as traditional litigation. The difference is in the forum, not the level of disagreement. With Mediation and Collaborative Divorce, the conflict is addressed directly at the table with both parties present. In Court proceedings, the disputes are packaged and presented to a Judge or Court Commissioner, and clients sometimes don’t even need to appear.
Washington is a community property state, meaning that assets and debts acquired during the marriage are generally considered jointly owned and subject to division upon divorce. Courts aim for a “just and equitable” distribution, which doesn’t necessarily mean a 50/50 split. Separate property, such as assets owned before the marriage or received as gifts or inheritance, typically remains with the original owner.
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